A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to congratulate herself and her husband after breaking her virginity for the primary time in her life.
In a put up on her Fb web page, the girl referred to as Ihechi Ebe recounted how arduous she fought to take care of her virgin standing earlier than marriage and he or she is glad she was in a position to give herself to her husband to interrupt her virginity.
“Sure, I’ve given it to the one man who deserved and labored for it. Though very painful, however, I’m fulfilled as a result of it was my sole want to do that after marriage.
My husband didn’t marry me on a platter of gold, neither did I. We went by an entire plenty of challenges which might make 99.9% of males finish the connection, however he by no means did. He would have stated, this woman isn’t satisfying my s*xual urge, let me push her away, let me go into different girls, however he by no means did such.
One Prince of Delta State stated it plain to me that he won’t ever get married to me until he tastes what he’s going into. To me, he was very mindless at that time no matter his riches. I let him and his riches go to hell.
And for you who doubted my virginity and wanted a affirmation first earlier than you consider, na mumu dey fear you, an actual man believed it with out making an attempt to verify it and he patiently waited for 4 years, now, he has received it in its fullness. Ntorrrrrrr.
Ohhhh, I fought, I fought so arduous to maintain my vow to God, and I’m so fulfilled having succeeded and I thank God for the person I name husband. 4 years of patiently ready isn’t moi moi.
Ohhhh, sure, I’m very pleased with it and my mum may be very proud as a result of it wasn’t simple, in truth, I felt no person would ever purchase the concept of protecting it until marriage, till I met my husband man.
The journey of protecting it began from childhood. In the hunt for real love, I met an entire lot of males, each the richest and the poorest, however, my vow was all the time an issue, because the society is so corrupt to accommodate it.
The very first man I met, didn’t simply kick towards it, cheated severally, referred to as me names, requested me whether or not I believe he ought to depart ebe ana agba afa gaba ebe ana aru agwu. He castigated me in a number of events, simply due to my refusal for s*x.
He made two makes an attempt to r*pe me. The final time, being on my sick mattress, however I fought with my final power. He felt he succeeded and left to inform my greatest buddy, that the factor that’s making my head to be large, he has taken it by drive. Inside me, I knew he was simply being a idiot, and I thanked God for saving me, and ended the connection.
It received to the flip of who referred to as himself a pastor in class, since I wasn’t forthcoming with what he needs, he began having affairs and in my regular method, I felt I shouldn’t disturb myself since I wasn’t prepared to present in both. The connection nonetheless ended with a woman he claimed to be his sister. Na my enterprise? In any case, I misplaced nothing.
The opposite one who grew to become a customized officer hustled a lot for it, however, it’s a no go space, the connection nonetheless ended, and to me, there’s somebody on the market who will respect my vow.
I fought and embarrassed a selected one who felt all his life was in it and felt he would sick speak me into succumbing. Omo, God is healthier for me than any man. My relationship with him issues most, so, I beat him as much as show that time to him.
Abi legion of Mary brother who received pissed off with my refusal, impregnated one other lady. How e take take away something from my physique? I cared much less.
They mocked me, castigated my want, referred to as me names, however like Christ, I used to be by no means moved by their spittle.
There’s one specifically who bragged to me about how he slept with assorted kinds of girls who’re extra stylish than I’m. To him, I’d really feel dangerous, however by no means, it made my coronary heart stronger.
I by no means got here to any social media to make noise, however, I saved believing and trusting God that there’s a man on the market who will perceive and hold this singular quest for me, therefore, I wasn’t discouraged.
I can go on and on to recount so a lot of them, however the actual g was someplace ready to satisfy me
Lastly I met my husband man on the twentieth day of Could, 2017, he promised to make my want and vow a actuality. And certainly he confirmed how nice a person he’s.
He fought so arduous to maintain me and make me his spouse. He promised so along with his life. He confronted so many castigations, assaults, rejections, but, he stood steadfast in his guarantees.
I made him all the pieces to me. Posting his photos on my wall made many uncomfortable, simply as they’re castigating my virginity put up, they castigated my posting his photos and criticized it. The identical individuals run up and down disabusing his thoughts from posting my photos any time he does, however that by no means modified something.
I as soon as had an lodging downside and couple with him falling sick, he accommodated me. But, by no means took benefit of that. He revered my vow and want.
When individuals by no means noticed any signal of being pregnant, they began forming tales, castigation grew to become the order of the day. They stated two issues are concerned, both I’m not medically okay, or he isn’t medically okay, if not, why haven’t I been pregnant for the previous 4 years.
To finish the challenges round us, some suggested that I get pregnant for him and my query all the time was, how doable would that be contemplating my vow.
They publicly and privately mentioned us and doubted us once we stated, we hadn’t executed something but and we’re ready until after marriage.
They mocked us earlier than us, privately and publicly, I saved calm whereas praying to God to make this time a actuality.
It was our personal life, however idle minds made it their public affairs, dragging us up and down.
I keep in mind two ladies from my class had a guess with me, that, on my wedding ceremony night time, I’d be embarrassed as it is going to be confirmed by my husband that I’m not what I stated I’m.
Some stated that I’m not a girl, that’s why I haven’t been pregnant, I puzzled what the society is popping into, why no person believes us and all people places curiosity in my being pregnant even once I was not but married.
Every time we deliberate working in the direction of our settling down, one downside or the opposite will set in, and the plan would fail. It repeated as much as 5 instances.
The final downside we had was in December 2020, I by no means knew we might reconcile, I felt that was the top of us. Due to so many challenges throughout, I saved praying to God to separate us by himself and that if we aren’t for one another, we should always by no means reconcile, but when he’s my husband, God ought to discover a option to deliver us again to one another.
Alone aspect, I attempted making strikes to overlook all the pieces about him. I attempted to fall in love with one other, however, it wasn’t doable. Every time I attempted, all about him was in my thoughts, and tears all the time rolled down my chicks, falling in love with one other wasn’t doable. Furthermore, all different males are the identical. They wouldn’t respect my vow.
I nonetheless met one other yeye man who taught I’d fall mugu as a result of he’s starting to see change as cash.
He stupidly advised me that he wanted to verify my standing earlier than he would consider that I’m a virgin. That provoked me to think about my love when he got here asking for forgiveness.
I let go and accepted him again expressing my fears to him, and he nonetheless vowed to make me proud.
The silly man began posting photos of a woman on his standing, once I seen that, I took him for a idiot, figuring out that my testimony is close to.
In the present day, in all of the challenges, difficulties, wahala, turbulent storms, depraved advises he wasn’t shaken by any of them and at present he made actual his guarantees.
If he fought so arduous to maintain his guarantees to me, why then will I not make it identified to the entire world by this media, how an ideal man he’s?
Why shouldn’t I testify of the goodness of God to me.
I urge you all to achieve out to this nice man and congratulate him for me and cease being envious of what you possibly can by no means do.
I requested him at present, honeym, what should you had tried it after marriage and came upon I lied to you, what would you could have executed? He stated, babe, there isn’t a what if. I believed you and I knew that you simply weren’t deceiving me. In the event you had executed one thing, I’d have identified too.
At that time, I remembered how snug he was and by no means suspected my actions.
Honeym, might heavens honour you, might heavens elevate you, might heavens prosper you. For this singular act of yours, fulfilling your guarantees, you shall by no means know downfall. The God I serve shall hold you above your equals. The love we present in one another won’t ever die. Our house is blessed. God’s favour and blessings will stay ours.
Amen. I like you honeym. I don’t care about haters.”
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